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Про дружбу… Или Закон равновесия в действии…

               Если у тебя не врагов

– значит,  у тебя нет друзей.

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      Так уж устроен мир, что во Вселенной действует Закон равновесия. И, возможно, отдельно взятая личность не замечает его действия в своей жизни, но в мире в целом он работает.

   

      У меня же этот закон проявлялся особенно остро в вопросе отношения с людьми. Я, человек спокойный и почти уравновешенный, всегда относилась к людям хорошо, как к отдельным личностям, так и в целом. Только явный негатив ко мне мог дать сигнал, что этот человек не заслуживает моего внимания. Нет, я не становилась злой или капости подстраивала, я просто не имела с этим человеком дела. Все остальные в моих глазах всегда имели шанс на ошибку.

      Но вот парадокс, мое позитивное ровное отношение к людям со временем сыграло злую шутку...

      Есть понятие «друзья».  Что это за люди? Такие люди часто общаются (реально или виртуально), видятся, проводят какое-то время, если долго не видятся, то возможно, скучают, помогают друг другу делом и советом. Друг всегда заметят, что другого не стало в его жизни.  Это я говорю о серьезных проявлениях дружбы, но конечно есть и несерьезные… Но для меня всегда дружба была серьезной штукой. Но в серьезном понятии друзей у меня нет. Только один) Но он не в счет)

      Как-то  я отклонилась от сути.. Так вот, анализируя свое детство, подростковую и уже зрелую жизнь, Закон равновесия проявлялся в лучшем виде. Стоило только в школе ополчиться против меня пол класса мальчиков, так сразу же девочка одна, самая бойкая, но до этого сильно со мной не общавшаяся, сказала мне: «Если тебя кто хоть пальцем тронет, скажешь мне». Тогда до серьезного дело не дошло, но этот случай я запомнила навсегда. Если меня обижал один мальчик, то всегда находился другой, чтобы защитить. Если кто-то на меня имел зуб, то появлялись люди, которые вставали на мою сторону. Если с кем-то отношения улучшались, то находился человек, который гневно на меня смотрел. Но стоило только проблеме пройти, защитники, поддерживатели и очень хорошие отношения понемногу уходили в небытие. Даже любовь свою я встретила в момент, когда было мне херовее всего.

      И вот из-за того, что конфликтности у меня мало, а негативно настроенных против меня людей еще меньше, я не имею этого особенно отношения к себе. Да, я могу позвонить многим людям, они обрадуются, даже очень обрадуются мне, но стоит мне пропасть куда-то на год, или 3, они и не заметят))))))

       Наблюдая за остальными людьми, я заметила, что и у них он работает тоже. Но в отличие от меня, у них есть недруги явные или скрытые (со стороны виднее).

       Закон равновесия – преследует меня всю жизнь, только вот лучше от этого мне, на отдельных участках жизни, не становится…

 

 



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Если сегодня ты плачешь, то завтра тебе подарят улыбку:) или если много смеешься, то будешь скоро плакать:) работает, проверено
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Гм... Поки дочитав - проаналізував трохи своє життя і такі да - найміцніший зв'язок у мене саме із тим, з ким частенько обговорюю за пивом/коньяком/кавою/чаєм різні життєві виверти. Та й "дружити проти когось" нам тож випадало.

А от щодо випадкових "друзів"... Ну да, є такі, що забудуть мене через півроку. А є такі, що я їх забуду - але якось то не сильно переймаюся через це.

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